Being elegant is to know you, to know how to act and how to treat yourself to show your intelligence, beauty, and good attitude. Being elegant is reflected from inside and outside. Inner elegant includes self confidence, gratitude, and honest (be yourself). Outer elegant includes appearance, speak, attitude, and gesture.
Why women have to be elegant? Since people underestimate the women’s power and ability. People thought that women are feeble person, whether they have ability or not. That’s why; women have to show what they have and who they are. Being elegant women makes them being respected.
This is a how to become an elegant women:
1. Being elegant from inside.
a. Be confidence.
Being confidence women make them looked tough, strong, and interesting. It will make people “see” them and think twice to underestimate them.
b. Be smart.
You not need to have high IQ to be smart. Just always watch your step, think far about everything you want to do, what you want to talk, and what decision you want to take. Smart women will never let them down and never give up.
c. Be calm.
Talk less, do more. That’s a great way to be calm. Don’t talk too much about unimportant things in public, and gossiping people in backstage. That will make you looked tacky.
d. Be yourself.
You have to explore what your likes and dislikes, what your strength, talents, and dreams, and what opportunities around you. Show yourself. Show what you have. And don’t ever imitate somebody else to be looked great. Everybody has their own uniqueness.
e. Be gracious.
An elegant woman is a gracious woman. Love your life, love people around you, and treat everybody same. Be thankful for everything you have and don’t forget to share it with people around you.
2. Elegant from outside.
Always stand up straight, use simple clothes, keep your body clean, ensure your shoes are clean, and suit your dress with the occasion. How your appearance reflects how you are. If you want to be looked elegant, perform elegant.
How you speak also reflects you’re elegant. Refrain from vulgarities, speak about good things only, don’t gossiping people, be gracious when you encounter someone rude, be friendly, kindly, and warm. Control your emotion when you feel angry or uncomfortable with some situation. Last, down to earth. It is more elegant than exaggeration.
Taken from: sayhelloindonesia.blogspot.com (article, By Andini Stefani), Google (images).